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No Mud, No Lotus: Growing into our fullness

June 13, 2013 By Dr. Susan O'Grady

No Mud, No Lotus, Thich Nhat Hanh Many yoga practitioners are familiar with the lotus position, a classic meditation pose. Sitting with legs crossed, feet on opposing thighs, and hands cupped helps centers the body on one’s breathing, just as the petals of a lotus all link to the flower’s center. But the symbolism of […]

Hamsa meditation

July 10, 2013 By Dr. Susan O'Grady

The Sanskrit word Hamsa translates as a swan. In yoga, the word breath is also known as Hamsa. One method of using the breath in meditation is to focus on the mantra hamsa. This meditation comes from the short Hamsa Upanishad, which explains the mystical nature of Hamsa, the inner swan, located within all. The […]

Working with Emotions: How mindfulness and awareness help

February 7, 2017 By Dr. Susan O'Grady

hiding from emotions is never a good strategy

Bringing the hidden to light is an important part of psychotherapy, sometimes achieved through focus on intellectual reflections. But in recent years, mindfulness-based therapies emphasize awareness of how feelings and physical sensations are related. It is enlightening to notice what happens in the body when we feel strong emotions. As an example of how lack […]

Suffering, Compassion, and a Skate Ramp: How mindfulness and acceptance help

August 2, 2016 By Dr. Susan O'Grady

Acceptance and suffering.

Last summer my neighbor’s son built a huge skate ramp right next to our property line. (We’re on different streets, so I’d never met him or his family.) First sawing, then drills, and eventually it was finished. I was glad for the wild Toyon bushes that grew high along a chain-link fence, blocking the view—but […]

Waking up on the Grumpy Side of the Bed: Coping with difficult moods

February 23, 2016 By Dr. Susan O'Grady

Coping with depression and difficult emotions.

“Yesterday all day a small gardenia was a great consolation.” Thomas Merton A Year with Thomas Merton: Daily Meditations from His Journals Some days are harder than others. It’s tempting to find something or someone to blame, even if it’s just the wrong side of the bed. Yesterday, I woke up grumpy, but instead of […]

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